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Let me start off by saying , I am not oking the fact to have an affair in this blog, and YES an Affair is something to be taken very seriously and we should never settle to be with a partner who constantly cheats. But I also feel we are all human and by no where near perfect. We get caught up , by the flesh, temptation , greed , lack of communication and anger sometimes.
I feel that being in a great lasting relationship has to include full understanding that we are not perfect , we are bond to make mistakes sometimes. Whats important is a partner who recognizes there/your mistakes , learns from, and wants to move forward .
I met this beautiful couple while I was living in Tampa , and I feel blessed to have met them. They were in there mid 40's and have been married since they were 20 ..... this couple still had so much passion, I was just in shock to see them still flirt with eachother, her sitting in his
lap , him caressing her hair , I even caught him glazing at her as if she was the most beautiful women he's ever seen. It was beautiful!
After 20 years... still that playfulness. It was just amazing!
I just had to ask them whats there secret ??? It's , Understanding each other , being realistic, forgiving.
You see they have a complete understanding of what it means to understand and except that we are always working to be better people because we are not perfect.
Therefore if the person we love makes a mistake , we have to learn to be forgiving and move on.
So, If the relationship is worth fighting for...
You and Your Sex Life Can Survive an
Affair. Whether its an emotional affair with somebody that your partner has been talking to on the phone , on the Internet or weather its a physical sexual affair that they have had once or even more. Sometimes having an affair is
actually a light going off that something is imbalanced in the relationship. It could be the best wake up call you ever had. Hard to believe but yes it can. Sometimes an affair can come from your partner feeling judged and
I'm not saying its your fault but maybe there not feeling safe enough to talk to you about what there real needs are. So if you or your partner have had an affair and you realize that you truly love them and you wanna heal the relationship. Step # 1
you need to tell them why you had the affair, without blaming them I felt neglected, I felt like I couldn't share my fantasies with you, I felt
judged, or maybe even I felt like I needed variety.
Be honest because your partner already knows and then tell them but I love you and I want this relationship to work and I'm willing to do anything, anything! it takes to heal, so that you trust me again.
Then you talk about what it takes...
There are 5 ingredients that you need to get back into that relationship...
Friendship , you guys need to be the best friends again, so u can relay on each other.
Trust, they need to trust you again or you need to trust them again.
Respect, you can lose respect in a relationship
Communication, open honest communication.
Passion, Yes! the passion can be rekindled, as long as you both have the desire, your willing to forgive and move forward an affair does not necessarily mean the end of a relationship.
Live, Learn, Forgive, and Love =) ...